What are your Intentions?
Posted by: andrew william, 22-Sep-2007
I recently met a girl whom I was quite interested in. What attracted me to her was her intelligence, sense of humor and our common faith.
I had just recently broken up with my girlfriend and wasn’t really intending on jumping into another relationship, not at least for the next six months. All I wanted was to be her friend and get to know her better. We struck off well, but our follow up wasn’t very good.
I wonder,... what are his intentions
Did I move too fast? Did she see through me? They say women’s “neocortex” (between the left and right brain) are more developed than men’s which give them a better insight or gut feelings to people’s motives or intentions. I find that an amazing strength!
Every woman I have met is different in character and the way they respond to the dating game.
you seem like a a nice guy. pleasant enough and you sound quite sincere. but personally, i think you are a tad dull, and i would not hesitate to use the word boring. and needy. and i am a woman saying this!
maybe you should take a break from dating. be single for a while: enjoy life, do the things you want to, surround yourself with fun family and friends, live a little... instead of incessantly searching for THAT relationship.
you were going to marry your last girlfriend, and in a matter of weeks you are ready to jump into another relationship. that is scary.
err... time to take a break from relationships dude. you are jumping from one to another too quickly.
Thanks for your honest comments Joniee. It's said "blows from a friend is faithful". A couple of my female friends have adviced me in the same line.
A spoonful of sugar still makes the medicine go down as effectively. Nevertheless your sincere comments are appreciated.
Your post tells me that a man can let go of a past relationship and move on pretty soon. Is it because she never really mattered to you? Just making assumptions here. Anyway, I am interested to know how different ladies respond to the dating game in our Asian upbringing. How about guys? Maybe you can write on that.
Dear Icefreak,
Thanks for your comments. It actually got me thinking of writing something in that line entitled, "Feelings or Commitment". That will be dedicated to you for your input.
Dear All,
Sorry for the late reply and having not updated any new posts for over a week. My computer is in the workshop and will be ready only this Thursday morning. Will post the new subject on Thursday night latest.
Thanks for your patience,.. love you all.
by the way, what does "take a break" actually means?
it has various meaning i know..but i just wanted to get you guys opinion..
thanks!