Shedding the Mr Nice Guy Image
Posted by: andrew william, 23-Apr-2010
" Nice Guys finish last", is the phrase we have heard so many times. How true this is. Why are women not impressed with nice guys? They could not define the opposite personality so we name it, "bad guys", But really, is it bad guys that women really prefer?
Well I have done my research and I have come to the conclusion, women like nice guys but they will not consider them as a potential mate. On the other hand they don't want a bad guy either as a potential mate, but given the choice they would rather settle for the bad guy instead.
What really women want is a good guy, not a nice guy and obviously not a bad guy. I will try to identify the difference between a good guy and a nice guy, We need not bother about the bad guy cause we all know what he is made of.
Women want good guys, not nice guys
A scenario between a good guy and a nice guy will define the difference;
Scene 1: In a bar a really pretty woman sits all alone having a drink. A waiter passes by, knocks her glass thus spilling the drink on the table and her. The waiter doesn't bother to apologize and not even concerned about cleaning the table or helping her, he goes about doing his work. The nice guys sees this, runs up to her and apologizes profusely for what has happened, he proceeds to get some clean cloth and starts wiping the table, continuing apologizing for the incident as it if was his fault. He then offers to send her clothes for dry cleaning and bearing the cost, he even almost decides to wipe her down which she promptly stops him and makes her way to the rest room to clean up. He waits in anticipation for her return. Although she is appreciative of the nice guy's help, she definitely was not impressed. She settles the bill and leaves the bar from the other side of the room.
Scene 2; Same incident happens, a good guy walks up and says something in this line, "these waiters, they just have no manners", and proceeds to help her by getting the other waiters to get clean paper napkins and he offers it to her to. He suggests that she move to another table and after she agrees he asks the waiter to do the necessary.
She is impressed! She soon is settled and they have a drink together.